Fifty Shades of Grey

If you haven't read this book, seriously, read it.

I have been so turned on by a book in my life. If you like erotica, you will love this.

Incidentally, it has taken a positive effect on my sex life, and Scotty is not complaining. All day yesterday I was so turned on, that I just had to take little breaks from time to time to read the book. I'm not even done with it yet and I am about to buy the next two in the series. I texted Scotty in the afternoon telling him that I was wet and that he better come straight home after work. He did :)

Weekend Roundup: Week 6

Friday:
After work, we went to dinner at a local Seafood restaurant that we will not be returning to. The service was a little less than OK and the food totally sucked. About half way through dinner Scotty realized that he had forgotten his phone at home, so we had to turn around and drive all the way home before going out to Scotty's heterosexual life partner's (HLP) house. The boys doodled around on YouTube for a bit, then Scotty spotted a guitar. He had told me that he played, but I had never heard or seen him play yet. While I didn't completely disbelieve that he could play guitar, I was not aware of how good he actually is. It was cool to see it in person. At one point we went upstairs because HLP's father is a TV producer, and he has won an Emmy. I just had to see this for myself, but I was hesitant to actually hold it, so I didn't. I ended up falling asleep on HLP's couch, so Scotty woke me up and took me home.

Saturday:
Saturday morning Scotty woke up and went to work for several hours, leaving me to sleep in and begin a side project I'm doing to get some extra cash. When he finally got home, we got ready and went over to my gay BFF, Sparkie's house for a Cinco De Mayo dinner. We downed about 4 gallons of the 8 gallon container of Sangria, and munched on all kinds of goodies while playing around on YouTube and Fiverr. We saw some of the most hilarious things that night. Sparkie's partner, we'll call him Chef, gave Scotty some pointers on dealing with indecisive women. Apparently Sparkie and I have a similar problem of not being able to decide on the simplest things, such as where to eat for dinner or what movie to see. Sleepily we made our way home, stopping impulsively to buy a cookie cake from the grocery store, and passed out almost immediately.

Sunday:
Scotty once again, left me sleeping, but this time he went to a car show with HLP for a few hours. Then he came home and we decided to go peruse a few local adult stores and have lunch. We ended up getting a fancy red cock ring with two vibrating bits that you can take out and arrange how you like. When we got home, I worked on the final stages of my side project, and then we tried out our new toy. It was pretty amazing, until the batteries started dying. We were pretty disappointed about that. The batteries should last through at least one sex session right? We rested for a little while, then had another round before falling asleep half naked.

TMI Tuesday: S-E-X Again

“Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me. Let’s talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be…”

S-E-X again

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are on a subject near and dear to our hearts (and some other body parts, too). It’s all about SEX!…Yes, again.

1. What is your sexual personality?
a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play by play
b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used.
c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor.
d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed.

About 80% B and 10% D and 10% A.

half and half A & B

2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught? For example, at a wedding reception you sneaked to have sex in the coat room. At a party, you sneaked to have sex in a bathroom or closet.

I have never snuck away to do this. But then again, I've never had the opportunity to either.

At a house party in high school I was in the band so I sneaked to the van to have a little fun with a new groupie. 

3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do:
a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands, legs tied while having sex
b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks
c. Record the two of you having sex
d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle

A. I've always wanted to try some light dominance like this. Dunno if Scotty would be down for it though. I'd also do D if A weren't an option.

A. C. D. 

4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why?
a. I act out all of my fantasies.
b. I act out many of my fantasies.
c. I act out some of my fantasies.
d. I act out very few of my fantasies.
e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies.
f. I don’t have any fantasies.

D. I don't have many, but I've only had the opportunity to act two of them out so far. I'd like to do more in the future.

I don't have many fantasies 

5. How important is sex in your life (select one)?
a. I could hardly survive without it.
b. It is very important.
c. It is somewhat important.
d. I could live without it.
e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist!

B. I love sex, especially with Scotty. But to say I can't live without it is going a bit too far. I can live without sex, do I want to? Hell no!

A. I can't stand going a day without being inside Nicole. 

Bonus: Finish the following phrase.

Sex is ______________ .

Sex is AMAZING with Scotty. No man has ever made me climax while in missionary position except him. I don't know what he does that's different, but holy cow I love it. 

Amazing... There is no other way to explain it. 

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Weekend Roundup Week 4

Friday:
After work we went over to my mother's house for dinner and to play cards. We all got a little tipsy, but we had loads of fun. Scotty and I got home too late and we were far too tired to have sex, so we just snuggled up and went to sleep.

Saturday:
Scotty didn't have to work this weekend, so we slept in a little. When we did wake up Scotty complained that we hadn't properly consummated our engagement, and began to kiss and lightly caress my body,removing my soft cotton pajamas to open the path for his lips. His fingers roamed my skin, sliding over my nipples, my hips, my ass, my legs, and finally my pussy. It was warm and wet, ready for his touch. He guided me to orgasm with the flick of his fingers, then again with his tongue before he entered me and gave me a few more before his intense climax that filled me up and soaked my panties that were promptly put back on after our love making.
"What do you want to do today?" he asks as we're laying nearly naked among the mess of sheets, blankets, and pillows on our bed. "I dunno." I responded breathlessly.

We had to pick up a package at the post office, so we did get up and get going soon. Then his mother called and we met her and her boyfriend for lunch. "We're going to the Dogwood Festival down in Piedmont Park," she says to me over fried chicken and macaroni and cheese, "You wanna go with us?" I swallowed a bite of mashed potatoes, "Sure!" I looked over to Scotty, "You wanna go honey?" "I guess so." He responded, paying more attention to the barbecue ribs on his plate. After we finished eating, we piled up in the car and headed down to the city. It was cool seeing all the local art booths, but the funnel cake was by far my favorite thing about the festival.

When we finally got home, we settled in to have pizza and watch TV and drift off to sleep.

Sunday:
Scotty woke me up again with morning sex and then he was off to the car meet down at the baseball stadium with his buddies. I stayed in bed watching TV and reading. When Scotty got home, we talked about the offer my landlord had made us versus moving to an apartment complex. After going over our finances a little bit and the pros and cons of each option, we decided that we are moving into a new apartment. This means, a FULL kitchen :) and no crazy house guest.

Happy with our decision and all the hype and excitement over our recent engagement, I woke Scotty back up after we had gotten in bed for some celebratory sex. He protested at first saying it was too late and he was tired, but after a tiny bit of coaxing, he was right on board for a quickie. Then sleep came easy for us both, not just him.

We're Engaged!

That's right! As of yesterday (Thursday, April 19, 2012) at about 6:45am!

I had an inkling that it was coming, but I didn't know when. Scotty had been trying to sneakily ask about my ring size and what not last weekend and early this week. Then yesterday morning, after my second of four alarms (it takes a lot for me to wake up in the morning) Scotty rolls over and snuggles up to spoon me.

He whispers, "Hey, are you awake?"
I sleepily opened my eyes a bit and croaked in my just-woke-up-why-are-you-trying-to-converse-with-me voice, "I'm coherent. Why?"
"I've got something for you."
I rolled my eyes. I could feel his morning boner pressed against my butt. Oh lord, we don't have time for all of that. I've got to get up for work and make lunches for us. I thought to myself, but out loud I said, "What is it?"
Scotty slides his hand down the length of my arm.
Seriously, we don't have time for this. I groaned internally.
When his hand reached mine, he fumbled for a tiny moment, (I found out afterwards he was counting my fingers in the dark, to make sure he got the right one) then slipped a ring on my finger. "Nicole, will you marry me?"
A HUGE smile spread across my face. "Yes!" I rolled over and kissed him madly.

We lay there talking for a moment, awake earlier than usual. So happy. Then in a fit of passion and love, we hastily undressed and had a quickie before getting up and dressed for work. I wore my current favorite outfit to compliment the most perfect ring ever. I was trying not to bring attention to it at the office, cause I wanted to tell my mom later that morning before telling everyone else, but that didn't happen. One person noticed and then there was a swarm of well wishers surrounding me. I'm not one to enjoy being the center of attention like that, so I was slightly uncomfortable all morning. The hype died down a bit by the afternoon.

The ring is perfect. Exactly what I wanted. Being a normal warm-blooded women on Pinterest, I've been Pinning my wedding ideas and such for months. And this ring, and variations of it have flooded my Wedding Idea's board. Scotty is on Pinterest too, and he follows me. So, I just assumed that he perused my wedding board to get inspiration, but when I mentioned it to him, he looked at me confused. So I pulled up my Pinterest and showed him. There were at least six on this exact style pinned. He was so pleased with himself for choosing the perfect ring that I wanted without help, and I was amazed and fell that much more in love with him for knowing me so well to be able to choose this ring all by his self.

Soon I was bombarded with excited, congratulatory text messages, tweets, and phone calls. Scotty's boss got him a cookie cake that said "Congratulations Scotty and Nicole!" on it. And I'm almost positive my office will do something for me at some point.

We are both so happy, as are our families and friends. And now to the fun bit of making wedding plans. I can't wait to start!

Weekend Roundup: Week 3

Friday:
One of Scotty's friends had a birthday dinner. The birthday boy, who I'm not a huge fan of, was trying to convince everyone to go to the strip club, but no one was really game. We ended up just hanging out where our friend L works, waiting for her to get off. Finally we were all super tired and just went home. Well... wen we got home... oh boy. Sometimes, wait no. All the time, Scotty knows just how touch me and kiss me to turn me on and make wet, to make me want him. Orgasms? I had plenty. And Scotty? He had two. In a row. With one climax. TWO. He said that has never happened to him before. I fell asleep satisfied and so did he.

Saturday:
Scotty had to go work, and I tried to sleep in, but it didn't work out that well. I ended up chatting with my landlord and then I settled back down in bed to watch TV. I dozed off for about an hour, but woke up when Scotty called to tell me he was on his way home. So then I got up to shower and get ready to run our errands. When he got home changed clothes and we were on our way. I got my hair cut, then we had our nails done (I got a mani-pedi and Scotty got a pedi), and then we were off to visit my mom and brother. After that it was off to the Mall of Georgia to meet with my brother and some friends for dinner and a movie. Finally home, we snuggled up in bed, too tired to do anything.

Sunday:
We slept in a bit and then got dressed and went out for breakfast. Then SHOPPING! I got a bunch of new stuff, including the ugliest, most comfortable shoes in the world. Then we just hung out with T and L again. Once we got home I had all intentions of going to sleep before midnight. Scotty was snuggly, and then his hands started wandering, which leads to kisses all over my body. And then I was just too wet and turned on that I just had to have him. I haven't cum so much and so hard in my life. Scotty came twice, but this time they were separate sessions. I was praised again because that has only happened a hand full of times and he's not used to a woman wanting him so much.

Amazing weekend. Jealous?

TMI Tuesday: Love, Hate, and Guilty Secrets

Today’s fun TMI Tuesday questions were submitted by Jz from “A Reluctant Bitch” blog. Enjoy!

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Love, Hate, and Guilty Secrets. We never mind telling people about things we love or hate, but how about the things we love, but would hate for anyone to find out about?

Well, it’s time to free yourself of that fear!

For each of the categories below, list one thing you love, one that you hate, and then, take a deep breath and tell us something you hate to admit you love.

Really.
You’ll feel better for it!

Nicole's Answers Scotty's Answers

1. Food
I love Chocolate.
          Peanut butter
I hate Peppers of any kind.  
          I got nothing
My guilty secret is that I can eat an entire can of Lays Stax in one day (not it one sitting). 
                             I will eat an entire 1lb. bag of cheese cubes before I realize.



2. Apparel
I love Shoes and Dresses 
          Shoes and Ties
I hate Horizontal Stripes 
         V-Neck T-shirts and Skinny Jeans
My guilty secret is that I would rather wear one of Scotty's old T-shirts than a sexy tank top to bed.
                              I only wear one brand,style,and color of boxers




3. Books
I love Jane Austen novels
          Science Fiction


I hate non-fiction political crap
          Teeny bopper love stories


My guilty secret is  that I have read the Twilight Saga... multiple times... and loved it.
                              Hers is guilty enough for both of us!




4. Songs
I love songs that I can relate to.
          Almost everything
I hate not being able to understand what the artist is saying.
          noise not music
My guilty secret is that I actually like Just Bieber's new song "Boyfriend"
                              I love 60's and 70's love songs.




5. Movie
I love Pride and Prejudice. It's my absolute favorite movie.
          Anything that has Kevin Smith
I hate horror/scary movies
          Same  really.
My guilty secret is I am collecting all the hand drawn animated Disney movies for my future children.
                             I've seen the Notebook and I really do enjoy it



6. TV Show
I love GCB on Sunday nights, as well as Big Bang Theory and How I Met Your Mother.
          The Big Bang Theory,Eureka!,Sanctuary....Geek TV really
I hate that I always forget when my shows come on without a reminder on my phone.
          Trashy reality television 
My guilty secret is I watch marathons of America's Next Top Model and RuPaul's Drag Race whenever I can.
                             I like to watch hoarders and Intervention marathons 



7. Celebrity Crush
I love to watch a shirtless Channing Tatum in Nicholas Sparks movies.
          Gwen Stefani
I hate Lady Gaga and all her crazy antics.
         Reality tv stars
My guilty secret is I wish I could be a guest host on my favorite morning radio show and become a local celebrity and have everyone crush on me.
                             no clue


8. Music Group
I love Hanson :) Yep. Don't judge me!
          Blink-182
I hate Sugarland
          Greenday
My guilty secret is I still listen to my old Nsync albums from time to time. I know all the words :)
                              I do know a few boy band songs


9. Sports Team
I love the Braves! 
          Atlanta Falcons
I hate the Yankees :( boooooo
         New Orleans Saints
My guilty secret is <3 Red Sox :) 
                               Boston Red Sox




Bonus:
Sex Position or Sex Act or fetish
I love to be taken from behind (ie: doggy style or bent over the bed)
          Doggy Style
I hate anal... it's an exit, not an entrance.
          ?????
My guilty secret is I get off from Scotty climaxing.
                             I like a little pain

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link to tmituesdayblogfrom your website!

Weekend Roundup: Week 2

Friday:
After a very long week, with all kinds of crazy unplanned events, we decided that we just wanted to come home and do nothing. Well, that didn't happen. I got home before Scotty and my landlord had brought me my mail. One of the items I ordered from Amazon came in; a bracelet for Scotty. It wasn't supposed to come in until Monday or Tuesday, so I decided to give it to him for Easter. Only I couldn't wait that long :) So as soon as he got home and told him I had a surprise for him. He loved it! Scotty Doesn't usually wear jewelry, but he wears this piece every day.
Our plans for Saturday required nicer clothes that what Scotty has stowed at my house, so we made a trip over to his house to get a few things. We visited with his family and he showed off his bracelet. Then we went to dinner and finally home to relax before bed.

Saturday:
Scotty had to work, so he got up before me and I slept in much later than I wanted to and awoke to an email from my boss. I needed to re-scan some documents, so I got up and rushed over to the office. Then off to my mothers to color Easter Eggs with my grandparents. Scotty got off early and was able to make it to momma's just in time to wrap up coloring eggs. Dinner was delicious, then we hunted eggs. After that, we went out for a friend's birthday. It was at a Karaoke bar. We had so much fun with the amazing song choices and drunk singing.
Soon we were headed home cause we were both tired. The plan was to go right to sleep, but that didn't happen. Scotty has wandering hands, and I like to be touched, so that leads to sex. Neither of us complained, and we both slept well.

Sunday:
We (read: I) slept in, or at least I tried to; Scotty's wandering hands again. Apparently I mumbled for him to "try again at like 10 o'clock, I told you I wanted to sleep in." I barely remember this, but he did roll over and we both fell back asleep. He finally did wake me up and we had a Easter sex. Then it was off to Scotty's Granny's house for an Easter cookout. Once we were back home Scotty fell asleep cuddled up with me on the couch. I nudged him awake and then we snuggled up and fell asleep.



I love spending my weekends with Scotty. He makes me so happy.

TMI Tuesday: Sex on Fire

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions focus on sexual desire.

(Nicole's Answers, Scotty's Answers)

1. Answer the question: What makes you hot?


When Scotty touches and/or kisses all over my body.

When Nicole kisses me and bites my bottom lip.

2. What is it that you want, when you look at porn?
a. To feel happy
b. To learn
c. To relax, relieve tension
d. To orgasm

I don't watch porn often, but it's usually a mix between B and D. I like to get new ideas from porn to shake thing up a bit from time to time so sex doesn't get boring. And, sometimes, I just need the extra help to get off when I'm alone.

It is most definitely D and then B.

3. You’ve been asked to be a part of a porn movie production. Which job will you do? Why did you select that?
a. The star of the porn film–Doug Hardwicke or Fachina Istite
b. The director–staging the scenes and directing the actors, lighting, camera shots, etc.
c. The fluffer–you’re in charge of keeping the actors “excited” about their work
d. The camera person getting all the tight, up in there, close shots

I would probably choose B. I'd love to have a porn filmed catering to my personal preference. The foreplay I enjoy, the positions I love, the right timing and how I want it to flow.
B, I'm a little more reserved but I think I could use my "position" to see others act out my fantasies.

4. Right this very moment you are horny and are looking for a casual hookup for sex. Under which, of the following headings, would you place your ad? (w=woman, m=man, t=transexual/transvestite)
w4m, m4w, m4m, w4w, t4m, m4t, w4t, t4w, t4mw, mw4t, mw4mw, mw4w, mw4m, w4mw, m4mw, w4ww, m4mm, ww4m mm4w m4ww, w4mm

Considering I do participate in casual sex, this would never really happen. But I'll play along for the sake of this post. I would definitely go with w4m. I'm straight and not looking for anything extra.

For the sake of this answer ww4m. Am I a pervert yet?

5. From now on, ’til the end of time you will be able to experience sexual pleasure via a single method. From the list below, choose that method. Why did you make that choice?

a. Vaginal penetration
b. Anal penetration
c. Masturbation with your fingers/hand
d. Masturbation with a single favorite sex toy. What is the toy?
e. Being masturbated (e.g. fingered, hand-job) by the fingers/hands of another person
f. Body Touching from another–full body massage, caressing, kneading, licking, sucking, biting, etc but no insertion of anything in any orifices.
g. Oral sex

I would choose E. Why? Scotty can do amazing things with his hands :)
A. I love the feeling of being inside Nicole.

Bonus: What’s the sexiest thing you did this past weekend? Got any pics or a vid?


The sexiest thing I did this weekend would probably be letting go and trusting Scotty enough to get over a anxiety I had concerning oral sex. And boy did I discover what I was missing out on all this time.
What she said. It was... amazing...

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Weekend Roundup: Week 1

Let's start the week with a recap of our weekend!

Friday Night:
Scotty met me at one of my favorite shopping spots, I was able to find a complete new outfit, a shirt, and two pairs of shoes for work. Scotty decided that he needed to get some personal items to keep at my house since he's sleeping over so often. It's way easier than lugging his stuff around all the time. I think I'm gonna have to make room for him in my closet. Or maybe he'll just re-do my closet for me and then it will be easier to organize and make space. *hint hint - wink wink* After shopping we went to dinner at one of my favorite Italian restaurant, unfortunately we were rushed through our meal, so the experience was so not enjoyable. Finally we got back to my apartment and began to relax. We settled down, then got ourselves riled up again. I wasn't complaining, and I slept really well all cuddled up with him.


Saturday:
I slept in, but poor Scotty couldn't. He did continue to snuggle me until I awoke. When I did, he started playing and soon I was fully awake and with spasms of pleasure rolling through my body. Afterward, we decided we wanted cracker barrel for breakfast, so we got dressed and were out the door. After breakfast I had to go help Mr. Big's mom pack up his things to send them to California. Mr. Big is one of my very best friends, and he just got a job out there. It was hard to watch her go through his things and box them up, she is trying so hard to be strong. I sat and visited with her for a little while when we were through, and she gave me a beautiful angel. Around 5pm I was ready to get home. Scotty and I were supposed to go to dinner with his friends, T & L. So I rushed home to shower and change, only Scotty was running late. I was nearly asleep by the time he arrived and was quite cranky at first, but he soon got me out of my funk and we had a good night out. We were too tired to do anything but sleep when we got home.

Sunday:
We (read: I) slept in again and was gently awoken by a snuggly Scotty. I had had lunch with my mom on Friday and she invited me over for dinner Sunday, and said that i could bring Scotty. We lazed around for a few hours, then Scotty had his way with me and we rushed out the door. We weren't as late as we though we were, so we stopped at the store and I bought him a new shirt (cause I'm an awesome girlfriend like that) and he got a new hat (that is absolutely so sexy on him). Then we went on to my mom's. She absolutely adored him. So did her husband. We played card games and drank beer until about 10pm. Then we finally decided it was time to go. Scotty drove us home and I told him all about my mom liking him and that she could already tell he was falling in love with me. He snuggled me all night again (just the way I like it). 

Stay Tuned each Monday for our weekend adventures!