Weekend Roundup: Week 7

Friday:

Angry me at UPS

After work, I come straight home to get to work on Mother's Day cards for my Momma and Scotty's Momma and Granny. I was choosing the paper and accent pieces when Scotty arrived home. We had a race event to attend Saturday, so Scotty started packing up some stuff and I went upstairs to check with my landlord to see if Scotty's Momma's gift had arrived as planned. It hadn't. I checked the tracking info, it said "Out For Delivery", but it was already 7pm. Scotty called UPS and was on the phone for nearly an hour trying to sort out why we had not received our package when we paid for Second Day Air. Both of us were livid. Apparently the package was not really out for delivery it was on a trailer on the other side of the city. After pitching a royal fit, and speaking with about 10 different people, they finally assured us it would be delivered on Saturday at no additional cost. I let my landlord know, and we headed off to Granny's for the evening to do laundry.

Saturday:
4:45am - Scotty's alarm goes off.
5:00am - I get up and start getting ready to go.
5:50am - The truck is packed up and we head out to Road Atlanta for Formula Drift Atlanta races.
6:30am - We stop for gas and breakfast. I am so not a morning person. I was cranky as hell and hungry, so I was snippy and mean. Scotty got really aggravated with me and we weren't really speaking until we got parked and started unpacking.
7:30am - Truck is unpacked and the guys are setting up our space. L and I are chatting over breakfast and I paint my toes.
8:00am ish - I snuggle up to Scotty and apologize for being bitchy and promise to try to have a good time.

Once everyone arrived the Formula One races started. That part was boring. Really boring. But I kept busy, making sure everyone had drinks and food. Chatting with our neighbors and such as well made our morning go by pretty quickly until the drift races, which is what we came to see, started at 2:00pm.

1:00pm - Scotty starts drinking.
1:30pm - Scotty is on his 3rd beer.
2:30pm - Scotty is officially drunk and slapping people in the face with a raw hot dog giggling the entire time.
3:00pm - Scotty and his buddies were "mouth raping" each other with raw hot dogs.
The drift races were really cool. I enjoyed them more than I thought I would. The rules are pretty easy to understand, but I really couldn't tell the difference between the cars, much less know who they drivers were.

5:20pm - I texted my landlord to see if the packages were delivered. He said they weren't. And again with the angry rants about UPS. Scotty decided he was going to rip the UPS guy a new one Monday (today).

Angry cat turned into livid Tigress.

8:00pm - Scotty is sobering up. He gets irritable when he sobers up after drinking all day.
10:00pm - The races are over and they do a final show bit with the cars.
10:15pm - We start packing up.
11:00pm - We finally get out of the track and on the road.

When we finally made it back to Granny's, we both changed clothes and passed out.

Sunday:
Both Scotty and I sleep in, I more than he. He gets up to get coffee and brings me breakfast in bed. I like to think that he was honoring me (the mother of his unborn children lol) on Mother's Day. Just a little. But probably not. Then he went back upstairs to spend some time with his Momma. Around 1:30pm I started to not feel well. So I tried to take a nap, and Scotty attended to me patiently. We were supposed to be at my Momma's around 2:00pm, but I could barely sit up. My head was pounding and I felt nauseous. Finally I began to feel better and we made it to Momma's around 3:00pm. I gave her the certificate for the Snow Leopard Family I adopted in her name and informed her the gift packet would be there before Tuesday. Then we ate a late lunch and sat around watching TV for a while. We came back to Granny's to finish laundry and I started on a side project.

We finally made it home. Both of us were so glad to be there. We ate a little super, showered, and collapsed into bed. I was never so happy to just snuggle up with him and just fall asleep.

Fifty Shades of Grey

If you haven't read this book, seriously, read it.

I have been so turned on by a book in my life. If you like erotica, you will love this.

Incidentally, it has taken a positive effect on my sex life, and Scotty is not complaining. All day yesterday I was so turned on, that I just had to take little breaks from time to time to read the book. I'm not even done with it yet and I am about to buy the next two in the series. I texted Scotty in the afternoon telling him that I was wet and that he better come straight home after work. He did :)

TMI Tuesday: M is for Mastubation

1. How often do you masturbate?

I used to masturbate a lot more than I do now. But I would say about once a week at this point. 

I was good for twice a day before Nicole. Now it's switched to twice a day w/ her. But I would say at least 2 or 3 times a week

2. What are you doing to celebrate Masturbation month?

I didn't realize it was Masturbation Month. I am more worried about figuring out what to do for Mother's Day.

Having sex?

3. Do you like to watch your partner masturbate?
a. Yes, it turns me on.
b. Sometimes, because it gets my partner very aroused.
c. Not really, it’s boring.
d. No, it’s a turn off.
e. I’ve never experienced it but I’d like to.

A. I like to see Scotty cum. I don't always get to when we have sex, and it's a huge turn on to see him reach climax.

A. Why would you not want to watch your partner play with themselves?

4. Do you let your partner watch you masturbate?
a. Yes, it turns me on to be watched.
b. Sometimes, because it gets my partner very aroused.
c. No, it’s embarrassing.
d. I’ve never experienced it but I’d like to.

B. I am getting more and more comfortable with this. I still prefer to do it on my own, but will participate in mutual masturbation from time to time.

B all the way. Masturbation is when I feel it's all about me.

5. Mutual masturbation? Yay or Nay?

Yay! it is a huge turn on and can lead to some really amazing sex.

YAY! I love it

6. If you had an all-expense-paid trip to San Francisco to attend Masturbate-a-thon 2012 would you go and masturbate? Why or Why not?

http://masturbate2012.tumblr.com/The Center for Sex & CultureSunday, May 27, 10am-midnightArrive by 9pm$40 minimum self-sponsorship; or bring sponsorship form with pledgesAll genders, all orientations welcome to explore self-pleasure in a supportive group environment. Check the next newsletter for more detail about this year’s Thon, and join us to Come for a Cause!All donations and pledges support CSC’s operations and programs.

Probably not. I am barely comfortable letting Scotty see my lady bits, much less a room full of people I don't know.

YEP! I think it would be a little weird at first but who knows, I might be in to it.

Bonus: Are you addicted to masturbating?

Nope. I don't "need" to do it, I just like to from time to time.

yes, It's one of the few constants in my life. ;p

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Weekend Roundup: Week 6

Friday:
After work, we went to dinner at a local Seafood restaurant that we will not be returning to. The service was a little less than OK and the food totally sucked. About half way through dinner Scotty realized that he had forgotten his phone at home, so we had to turn around and drive all the way home before going out to Scotty's heterosexual life partner's (HLP) house. The boys doodled around on YouTube for a bit, then Scotty spotted a guitar. He had told me that he played, but I had never heard or seen him play yet. While I didn't completely disbelieve that he could play guitar, I was not aware of how good he actually is. It was cool to see it in person. At one point we went upstairs because HLP's father is a TV producer, and he has won an Emmy. I just had to see this for myself, but I was hesitant to actually hold it, so I didn't. I ended up falling asleep on HLP's couch, so Scotty woke me up and took me home.

Saturday:
Saturday morning Scotty woke up and went to work for several hours, leaving me to sleep in and begin a side project I'm doing to get some extra cash. When he finally got home, we got ready and went over to my gay BFF, Sparkie's house for a Cinco De Mayo dinner. We downed about 4 gallons of the 8 gallon container of Sangria, and munched on all kinds of goodies while playing around on YouTube and Fiverr. We saw some of the most hilarious things that night. Sparkie's partner, we'll call him Chef, gave Scotty some pointers on dealing with indecisive women. Apparently Sparkie and I have a similar problem of not being able to decide on the simplest things, such as where to eat for dinner or what movie to see. Sleepily we made our way home, stopping impulsively to buy a cookie cake from the grocery store, and passed out almost immediately.

Sunday:
Scotty once again, left me sleeping, but this time he went to a car show with HLP for a few hours. Then he came home and we decided to go peruse a few local adult stores and have lunch. We ended up getting a fancy red cock ring with two vibrating bits that you can take out and arrange how you like. When we got home, I worked on the final stages of my side project, and then we tried out our new toy. It was pretty amazing, until the batteries started dying. We were pretty disappointed about that. The batteries should last through at least one sex session right? We rested for a little while, then had another round before falling asleep half naked.

Falling Slowly

Scotty and I have decided to move in together. And, as you already know, we have found the perfect apartment complex that we wish to move to. Considering my past, moving in with someone is huge for me. HUGE. And I am scared to death. This is a leap of faith I'm terrified of taking again, last time, I fell only to be shattered at the bottom of a dark empty hole.

I moved in with my ex fiance about two months after we met. Not completely by choice. His lease was up, and my roommates were abandoning me in the middle of our lease. I didn't drive at the time and he felt bad for me, so we moved in together. About a year later he proposed, and then 4 months before the wedding he left. We were together nearly two years, living together for most of them. It felt like a divorce, minus the legal paperwork. I ended up with less than half of our possessions and broke. He moved on very quickly, while I had to move back in with my parents and shortly after that lost my job. That year was a rough year for me, but I learned a lot from my experiences.

I love Scotty, and I can't wait to marry him. But I also thought I loved my ex, and we were planning our wedding. Deja Vu keeps kicking in and I shut down for a bit. Scotty does his best to reassure me, and I believe him when he says he loves me, he'll never leave me, and that we are in this together for better or worse. His sincerity touches me and a strong, secure feeling warms my body from the top of my head to the tips of my toes. Scotty has even suggested that we draw up a contract that we are equally responsible for all bills related to the apartment, binding for 30 days after a separation or until we get married. But the "what ifs" are still in the back of my mind and I can't shake them completely.

In the past few days, the "what ifs" have quieted down. Things we've been a little worried about are falling into place. Items we need for our new apartment are suddenly appearing: a new bed, a dining room table, new bedside tables, a moving crew, a washer and dryer, and God knows what else will spring up between now and our moving date. It's like this is meant to be and fate is taking over making my worries soften and disappear. As each day passes, I feel better and  about making this step and starting this life with Scotty.

I especially can't wait to have our new bed :)

All images via weheartit.com

TMI Tuesday: The Here and Now

1. Are you wearing any jewelry? What?

I am wearing my engagement ring of course! As well as a Celtic knot ring on my right hand that looks like this --------------------->

Around my neck I am wearing a necklace my mom brought back for me from Alaska. Last, in my ears, in the second holes, I am wearing diamond studs. 

I don't wear jewelry. But I do wear the Bracelet that Nicole gave me.

2. What are you listening to now?

The gentle hum of my tiny desk fan and the clicking of my keyboard. There are muffled voices in the lobby of our building right outside the door and a from time to time I hear a car pass by.

Nicole trying to talk me into seeing a movie.

3. What is the last piece of entertainment media (i.e., cd, download, book, DVD) that you purchased? Do you recommend it?

A Thousand Years, by Christina Perri. I downloaded it to my iPhone on Wednesday.Definitely recommend it. Beautiful song.

Abraham Lincoln : Vampire Hunter  So far it is an awesome book.

4. What kind of undergarments are you wearing right now? Care to post a photo?

I am wearing a nude bra and silky gray panties with lace trim ;) Scotty got a peek before we left the house this morning.

Gray boxer briefs

5. What is your current mood?

BORED. It's very quiet in the office this week.

Tired

6. What is the best looking thing about you today?

My dress. It's new and it's colorful. Everyone has complimented me on it today.

My beard? I dress like a bum at work.

7. Fill in the blank. Tonight I’m looking forward to _____________ .

Snuggling up with Scotty and watching RuPaul's Drag Race.

Apparently seeing a movie w/ Nicole

Bonus: Tell me something good…anything you want to share. Just do it

We found the apartment complex we want to move to! And it's a decent commute for both of us! 

I second her answer

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Weekend Roundup: Week 5

This weekend was very uneventful sexually due to a minor health issue, that is still cock blocking Scotty as we speak. But we do have some good news!! Read on to find out what it is!

Friday:
I started not to feel well, so I tried to see if I could get an appointment at my doctor's office, but he wasn't going to be in until Tuesday. I'll wait, in the mean time, I'm loading up on cran-grape juice and cranberry pills. Scotty stopped at KFC on his way home. Then we went to visit with Scotty's dad. Dad's girlfriend sent us home with some astrology books on compatibility that seemed really interesting. For the record: I like that kind of stuff, so it's not her way of saying Scotty and I aren't compatible. It had been a long week, and my illness was still bothering me, so we went straight to bed once we were home.

Saturday:
Scotty tried to wake me up at 7:30am... I was not having that, so I grumbled that I was excited about apartment hunting too, but I'd be way more excited around, oh, I don't know, 9am instead. He complied and turned the TV on quietly til I was ready to emerge from underneath the comforter. Scotty had promised me a nice breakfast, so we got dressed and went to Cracker Barrel. Pancakes :)
Then after that, we started by going to a town home that was suggested to us by Scotty's boss. It was horrible and way to far from work for us both. The we began looking at a places we found online. A couple of them ended up being out of our price range and the rest were really crappy and not worth looking into farther. Finally we decided to just drive around a little bit and see what we find. The very first complex we drove into looked really nice. We walked into the leasing office... no one said a word. They were busy with clients, but they could have at least said "Hi, we'll be right with you," or something of that nature. Scotty and I looked at each other with raised eyebrows. Then sat down to wait. We nearly left, but right as I was about suggested it, a man called us over to his desk. The leasing agent, lets call him Brad, was really nice and very helpful. He gave us 100% of his attention, which is why we were not greeted I assume. I liked that, sorta. Anywho. He made a few suggestions based on our price range and the type of furniture we had. Then Brad took us to view the model of the floor plan we choose. WE LOVED IT! We took home the applications and will be filling them out this week.
After apartment hunting we went to visit with Scotty's grandparents, brother, and nephews. We played and chatted, then finally we had to get home. T was coming over for dinner. I made salads, lasagna, and cheesy garlic bread. It was delicious. Still not feeling well, we just snuggled up and drifted off after T left.

Sunday:
We slept in, even Scotty this time! We had no real plans for the day as we had already decided upon an apartment. I really needed to get my nails done, and was not happy with the nail salon I had been going to, so we looked for a different one. I found one I really like, near the Super Target. Very convenient as I wanted to get a new dress for work as well. I did find a dress and a couple other things. Scotty had a blast playing with things.

After our Target adventure. we went to a late lunch/early dinner at a tex mex place near our house. Scotty loved it cause we got a booth with our own personal TV. Then we went grocery shopping. And finally home. Again, no sexy time, due to my annoying health issue. 

Like I said, sexually boring weekend. Very productive and entertaining in other areas though.

TMI Tuesday: S-E-X Again

“Let’s talk about sex baby, let’s talk about you and me. Let’s talk about all the good things and the bad things that may be…”

S-E-X again

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions are on a subject near and dear to our hearts (and some other body parts, too). It’s all about SEX!…Yes, again.

1. What is your sexual personality?
a. The Controller – initiating sex, twisting your lover into positions you want, and driving scene play by play
b. Sex Slave – You love to be used and at the mercy of your lover. You don’t initiate but follow and do as you are told. You love to be used.
c. Daredevil – Sexual adventure and sexual thrills are what you are all about. You get off on the risk factor.
d. Subdued – Sex is a necessary part of the relationship so you are available when needed.

About 80% B and 10% D and 10% A.

half and half A & B

2. How many times have you sneaked away from party guests to have sex in another part of the party venue. Where did you sneak to? Were you ever caught? For example, at a wedding reception you sneaked to have sex in the coat room. At a party, you sneaked to have sex in a bathroom or closet.

I have never snuck away to do this. But then again, I've never had the opportunity to either.

At a house party in high school I was in the band so I sneaked to the van to have a little fun with a new groupie. 

3. Your sex partner that you are mad crazy for has requested you do one of the following, which one would you grant consent to do:
a. Bondage/light restraint with your hands, legs tied while having sex
b. A sexual spanking that leaves light marks
c. Record the two of you having sex
d. Have sex in a mirrored room where you can see yourselves having sex from every angle

A. I've always wanted to try some light dominance like this. Dunno if Scotty would be down for it though. I'd also do D if A weren't an option.

A. C. D. 

4. Do you act out your sexual fantasies (select one)? Why?
a. I act out all of my fantasies.
b. I act out many of my fantasies.
c. I act out some of my fantasies.
d. I act out very few of my fantasies.
e. I don’t act out any of my fantasies.
f. I don’t have any fantasies.

D. I don't have many, but I've only had the opportunity to act two of them out so far. I'd like to do more in the future.

I don't have many fantasies 

5. How important is sex in your life (select one)?
a. I could hardly survive without it.
b. It is very important.
c. It is somewhat important.
d. I could live without it.
e. If it were up to me, sex wouldn’t even exist!

B. I love sex, especially with Scotty. But to say I can't live without it is going a bit too far. I can live without sex, do I want to? Hell no!

A. I can't stand going a day without being inside Nicole. 

Bonus: Finish the following phrase.

Sex is ______________ .

Sex is AMAZING with Scotty. No man has ever made me climax while in missionary position except him. I don't know what he does that's different, but holy cow I love it. 

Amazing... There is no other way to explain it. 

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Weekend Roundup Week 4

Friday:
After work we went over to my mother's house for dinner and to play cards. We all got a little tipsy, but we had loads of fun. Scotty and I got home too late and we were far too tired to have sex, so we just snuggled up and went to sleep.

Saturday:
Scotty didn't have to work this weekend, so we slept in a little. When we did wake up Scotty complained that we hadn't properly consummated our engagement, and began to kiss and lightly caress my body,removing my soft cotton pajamas to open the path for his lips. His fingers roamed my skin, sliding over my nipples, my hips, my ass, my legs, and finally my pussy. It was warm and wet, ready for his touch. He guided me to orgasm with the flick of his fingers, then again with his tongue before he entered me and gave me a few more before his intense climax that filled me up and soaked my panties that were promptly put back on after our love making.
"What do you want to do today?" he asks as we're laying nearly naked among the mess of sheets, blankets, and pillows on our bed. "I dunno." I responded breathlessly.

We had to pick up a package at the post office, so we did get up and get going soon. Then his mother called and we met her and her boyfriend for lunch. "We're going to the Dogwood Festival down in Piedmont Park," she says to me over fried chicken and macaroni and cheese, "You wanna go with us?" I swallowed a bite of mashed potatoes, "Sure!" I looked over to Scotty, "You wanna go honey?" "I guess so." He responded, paying more attention to the barbecue ribs on his plate. After we finished eating, we piled up in the car and headed down to the city. It was cool seeing all the local art booths, but the funnel cake was by far my favorite thing about the festival.

When we finally got home, we settled in to have pizza and watch TV and drift off to sleep.

Sunday:
Scotty woke me up again with morning sex and then he was off to the car meet down at the baseball stadium with his buddies. I stayed in bed watching TV and reading. When Scotty got home, we talked about the offer my landlord had made us versus moving to an apartment complex. After going over our finances a little bit and the pros and cons of each option, we decided that we are moving into a new apartment. This means, a FULL kitchen :) and no crazy house guest.

Happy with our decision and all the hype and excitement over our recent engagement, I woke Scotty back up after we had gotten in bed for some celebratory sex. He protested at first saying it was too late and he was tired, but after a tiny bit of coaxing, he was right on board for a quickie. Then sleep came easy for us both, not just him.

We're Engaged!

That's right! As of yesterday (Thursday, April 19, 2012) at about 6:45am!

I had an inkling that it was coming, but I didn't know when. Scotty had been trying to sneakily ask about my ring size and what not last weekend and early this week. Then yesterday morning, after my second of four alarms (it takes a lot for me to wake up in the morning) Scotty rolls over and snuggles up to spoon me.

He whispers, "Hey, are you awake?"
I sleepily opened my eyes a bit and croaked in my just-woke-up-why-are-you-trying-to-converse-with-me voice, "I'm coherent. Why?"
"I've got something for you."
I rolled my eyes. I could feel his morning boner pressed against my butt. Oh lord, we don't have time for all of that. I've got to get up for work and make lunches for us. I thought to myself, but out loud I said, "What is it?"
Scotty slides his hand down the length of my arm.
Seriously, we don't have time for this. I groaned internally.
When his hand reached mine, he fumbled for a tiny moment, (I found out afterwards he was counting my fingers in the dark, to make sure he got the right one) then slipped a ring on my finger. "Nicole, will you marry me?"
A HUGE smile spread across my face. "Yes!" I rolled over and kissed him madly.

We lay there talking for a moment, awake earlier than usual. So happy. Then in a fit of passion and love, we hastily undressed and had a quickie before getting up and dressed for work. I wore my current favorite outfit to compliment the most perfect ring ever. I was trying not to bring attention to it at the office, cause I wanted to tell my mom later that morning before telling everyone else, but that didn't happen. One person noticed and then there was a swarm of well wishers surrounding me. I'm not one to enjoy being the center of attention like that, so I was slightly uncomfortable all morning. The hype died down a bit by the afternoon.

The ring is perfect. Exactly what I wanted. Being a normal warm-blooded women on Pinterest, I've been Pinning my wedding ideas and such for months. And this ring, and variations of it have flooded my Wedding Idea's board. Scotty is on Pinterest too, and he follows me. So, I just assumed that he perused my wedding board to get inspiration, but when I mentioned it to him, he looked at me confused. So I pulled up my Pinterest and showed him. There were at least six on this exact style pinned. He was so pleased with himself for choosing the perfect ring that I wanted without help, and I was amazed and fell that much more in love with him for knowing me so well to be able to choose this ring all by his self.

Soon I was bombarded with excited, congratulatory text messages, tweets, and phone calls. Scotty's boss got him a cookie cake that said "Congratulations Scotty and Nicole!" on it. And I'm almost positive my office will do something for me at some point.

We are both so happy, as are our families and friends. And now to the fun bit of making wedding plans. I can't wait to start!

TMI Tuesday: Illicit Skills

If you are hesitant about confessing crimes…lie…be creative.

Nicole's Answers, Scotty's Answers

1. Do you know how to pick a lock? Have you ever used this skill to gain unauthorized access?

Not really, and no. I have never really felt the need to learn and use this skill.

Yes. Yes.

2. Do you know how to open a safe with a rotary combination lock? Have you ever used this skill to gain unauthorized access? What did you find?

Oh gosh no. 

I always wanted to learn but it never happened. 

3. Have you ever made a copy of a key you were not supposed to have? Did you use it to gain unauthorized access? What were you looking for? Did you find it?

Yep. Nope. It was a house key. cause I lost one of my other ones.

yes. It was a master key for a duplex my friends parents owned. We wanted to steal cigarettes. We were 14

4. Have you ever stolen or guessed a password? Did you use it to gain unauthorized access? What did you do?

Yep. And I snooped through his phone and his email. I discovered that my ex fiance was on eHarmony while we were still together and texting other girls. All of this happened Christmas morning.

I learned this in school. I know how to do it, I've never used it outside of a test.

5. Do you know how to get data from a computer that requires a password you don’t know?

nope.

Yes, Same as #4

6. Do you know how to record a telephone call? Have you ever done so secretly? Did you hear anything interesting? What?

nope. But I kinda wish I did sometimes.

Yes, I was really into things like this when I was younger. I wanted to be a lineman for the phone company so I learned it all.

7. Have you ever used a webcam or nanny cam to photograph someone secretly?

Yep. In one of my old apartments, we had to set one up outside our patio because the nasty neighborhood kids would mess with our holiday decorations.

nope

8. Have you ever used an infrared camera to photograph someone secretly in the dark?

nope

Nope

9. Have you ever learned anything important by deliberate eavesdropping?

Oh Yeah. I used to do it all the time at my old job, and with my crazy house guest now, I like to know if she's about to go bonkers on someone.

A few times. nothing worth mentioning though

10. Do you know how to hot-wire a car?

hahahaha I can barely get my oil changed in a timely manner.

I work for a race company. This is common knowledge for older cars

Bonus: Have you ever been paid for your sexual skills? What skill(s) did you perform?

Heck no. Unless love and praise is a form of payment.

Nicole pays me in reese's peanut butter cups and Mountain Dew 

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Weekend Roundup: Week 3

Friday:
One of Scotty's friends had a birthday dinner. The birthday boy, who I'm not a huge fan of, was trying to convince everyone to go to the strip club, but no one was really game. We ended up just hanging out where our friend L works, waiting for her to get off. Finally we were all super tired and just went home. Well... wen we got home... oh boy. Sometimes, wait no. All the time, Scotty knows just how touch me and kiss me to turn me on and make wet, to make me want him. Orgasms? I had plenty. And Scotty? He had two. In a row. With one climax. TWO. He said that has never happened to him before. I fell asleep satisfied and so did he.

Saturday:
Scotty had to go work, and I tried to sleep in, but it didn't work out that well. I ended up chatting with my landlord and then I settled back down in bed to watch TV. I dozed off for about an hour, but woke up when Scotty called to tell me he was on his way home. So then I got up to shower and get ready to run our errands. When he got home changed clothes and we were on our way. I got my hair cut, then we had our nails done (I got a mani-pedi and Scotty got a pedi), and then we were off to visit my mom and brother. After that it was off to the Mall of Georgia to meet with my brother and some friends for dinner and a movie. Finally home, we snuggled up in bed, too tired to do anything.

Sunday:
We slept in a bit and then got dressed and went out for breakfast. Then SHOPPING! I got a bunch of new stuff, including the ugliest, most comfortable shoes in the world. Then we just hung out with T and L again. Once we got home I had all intentions of going to sleep before midnight. Scotty was snuggly, and then his hands started wandering, which leads to kisses all over my body. And then I was just too wet and turned on that I just had to have him. I haven't cum so much and so hard in my life. Scotty came twice, but this time they were separate sessions. I was praised again because that has only happened a hand full of times and he's not used to a woman wanting him so much.

Amazing weekend. Jealous?

Stop for Yellow Lights

Loss: an overwhelming feeling that can take over your life. Of all the ways to experience this feeling, the death of a young person has got to be the worst. 

Kenny has been my brother's very best friend for nearly two years now. They did everything together. My mom loved him like he was her son, and her cat adored him even more. Funny, tall, handsome, smart, and handy were all words that described Kenny to a T.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012, Kenny was making a left turn. The stop light had just turned yellow. A man coming from the other direction, hit Kenny's car and flipped it over. Kenny died on impact. 

My mother called me Wednesday evening right as I got home from work and told me the news. My heart dropped and was aching for my brother's loss. Mom is having a very difficult time for two reasons. She hurts for her sons. And the realization that it could have been any of her kids hit her like a freight train. She made us all promise to never run a yellow light ever again, going straight or turning left. 

I can't even imagine what Kenny's family is going through right now, but I know how it is affecting my brother and it's killing me to see his pain. I don't know what to say, so I told him I loved him and gave him a hug and sat with him, just to be there so he knows he's not alone.

TMI Tuesday: Love, Hate, and Guilty Secrets

Today’s fun TMI Tuesday questions were submitted by Jz from “A Reluctant Bitch” blog. Enjoy!

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Love, Hate, and Guilty Secrets. We never mind telling people about things we love or hate, but how about the things we love, but would hate for anyone to find out about?

Well, it’s time to free yourself of that fear!

For each of the categories below, list one thing you love, one that you hate, and then, take a deep breath and tell us something you hate to admit you love.

Really.
You’ll feel better for it!

Nicole's Answers Scotty's Answers

1. Food
I love Chocolate.
          Peanut butter
I hate Peppers of any kind.  
          I got nothing
My guilty secret is that I can eat an entire can of Lays Stax in one day (not it one sitting). 
                             I will eat an entire 1lb. bag of cheese cubes before I realize.



2. Apparel
I love Shoes and Dresses 
          Shoes and Ties
I hate Horizontal Stripes 
         V-Neck T-shirts and Skinny Jeans
My guilty secret is that I would rather wear one of Scotty's old T-shirts than a sexy tank top to bed.
                              I only wear one brand,style,and color of boxers




3. Books
I love Jane Austen novels
          Science Fiction


I hate non-fiction political crap
          Teeny bopper love stories


My guilty secret is  that I have read the Twilight Saga... multiple times... and loved it.
                              Hers is guilty enough for both of us!




4. Songs
I love songs that I can relate to.
          Almost everything
I hate not being able to understand what the artist is saying.
          noise not music
My guilty secret is that I actually like Just Bieber's new song "Boyfriend"
                              I love 60's and 70's love songs.




5. Movie
I love Pride and Prejudice. It's my absolute favorite movie.
          Anything that has Kevin Smith
I hate horror/scary movies
          Same  really.
My guilty secret is I am collecting all the hand drawn animated Disney movies for my future children.
                             I've seen the Notebook and I really do enjoy it



6. TV Show
I love GCB on Sunday nights, as well as Big Bang Theory and How I Met Your Mother.
          The Big Bang Theory,Eureka!,Sanctuary....Geek TV really
I hate that I always forget when my shows come on without a reminder on my phone.
          Trashy reality television 
My guilty secret is I watch marathons of America's Next Top Model and RuPaul's Drag Race whenever I can.
                             I like to watch hoarders and Intervention marathons 



7. Celebrity Crush
I love to watch a shirtless Channing Tatum in Nicholas Sparks movies.
          Gwen Stefani
I hate Lady Gaga and all her crazy antics.
         Reality tv stars
My guilty secret is I wish I could be a guest host on my favorite morning radio show and become a local celebrity and have everyone crush on me.
                             no clue


8. Music Group
I love Hanson :) Yep. Don't judge me!
          Blink-182
I hate Sugarland
          Greenday
My guilty secret is I still listen to my old Nsync albums from time to time. I know all the words :)
                              I do know a few boy band songs


9. Sports Team
I love the Braves! 
          Atlanta Falcons
I hate the Yankees :( boooooo
         New Orleans Saints
My guilty secret is <3 Red Sox :) 
                               Boston Red Sox




Bonus:
Sex Position or Sex Act or fetish
I love to be taken from behind (ie: doggy style or bent over the bed)
          Doggy Style
I hate anal... it's an exit, not an entrance.
          ?????
My guilty secret is I get off from Scotty climaxing.
                             I like a little pain

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And another thing...

So I've been working on two drafts since we started the blog and its been driving me crazy. I didn't know how I would come off and other pointless feelings about blogging. So what I'm going to do is what I do best. Keep it honest,short, and semi-sweet.

 I love Nicole. That's all I need to know. We haven't been together long but all my feelings are pointing towards soul mate and I'm not afraid to say that. I know she is a little more reserved about telling people what we say behind closed doors and that's fine, but it isn't me.

 Why should I care what others are thinking?  PROBABLY SHOULDN'T
 Am I happy?  YEP
Is she happy?  UH HUH
Do we feel the same for each other? YEAH BUDDY
 yes. yes. yes.

 So that was all yeses and I know that we will make it through everything together. I am not afraid to say that she is my world. have a huge case of the I don't give a damns regarding the feelings of others on my relationship. We win.

 With all of that said I would like to thank you for visiting the blog. I think typing the above has killed the anxiety of blogging about something so personal and I will be posting regularly as well as the couples posts with Nicole.

Keep on keepin' on,
 Scotty

Weekend Roundup: Week 2

Friday:
After a very long week, with all kinds of crazy unplanned events, we decided that we just wanted to come home and do nothing. Well, that didn't happen. I got home before Scotty and my landlord had brought me my mail. One of the items I ordered from Amazon came in; a bracelet for Scotty. It wasn't supposed to come in until Monday or Tuesday, so I decided to give it to him for Easter. Only I couldn't wait that long :) So as soon as he got home and told him I had a surprise for him. He loved it! Scotty Doesn't usually wear jewelry, but he wears this piece every day.
Our plans for Saturday required nicer clothes that what Scotty has stowed at my house, so we made a trip over to his house to get a few things. We visited with his family and he showed off his bracelet. Then we went to dinner and finally home to relax before bed.

Saturday:
Scotty had to work, so he got up before me and I slept in much later than I wanted to and awoke to an email from my boss. I needed to re-scan some documents, so I got up and rushed over to the office. Then off to my mothers to color Easter Eggs with my grandparents. Scotty got off early and was able to make it to momma's just in time to wrap up coloring eggs. Dinner was delicious, then we hunted eggs. After that, we went out for a friend's birthday. It was at a Karaoke bar. We had so much fun with the amazing song choices and drunk singing.
Soon we were headed home cause we were both tired. The plan was to go right to sleep, but that didn't happen. Scotty has wandering hands, and I like to be touched, so that leads to sex. Neither of us complained, and we both slept well.

Sunday:
We (read: I) slept in, or at least I tried to; Scotty's wandering hands again. Apparently I mumbled for him to "try again at like 10 o'clock, I told you I wanted to sleep in." I barely remember this, but he did roll over and we both fell back asleep. He finally did wake me up and we had a Easter sex. Then it was off to Scotty's Granny's house for an Easter cookout. Once we were back home Scotty fell asleep cuddled up with me on the couch. I nudged him awake and then we snuggled up and fell asleep.



I love spending my weekends with Scotty. He makes me so happy.

TMI Tuesday: Sex on Fire

This week’s TMI Tuesday questions focus on sexual desire.

(Nicole's Answers, Scotty's Answers)

1. Answer the question: What makes you hot?


When Scotty touches and/or kisses all over my body.

When Nicole kisses me and bites my bottom lip.

2. What is it that you want, when you look at porn?
a. To feel happy
b. To learn
c. To relax, relieve tension
d. To orgasm

I don't watch porn often, but it's usually a mix between B and D. I like to get new ideas from porn to shake thing up a bit from time to time so sex doesn't get boring. And, sometimes, I just need the extra help to get off when I'm alone.

It is most definitely D and then B.

3. You’ve been asked to be a part of a porn movie production. Which job will you do? Why did you select that?
a. The star of the porn film–Doug Hardwicke or Fachina Istite
b. The director–staging the scenes and directing the actors, lighting, camera shots, etc.
c. The fluffer–you’re in charge of keeping the actors “excited” about their work
d. The camera person getting all the tight, up in there, close shots

I would probably choose B. I'd love to have a porn filmed catering to my personal preference. The foreplay I enjoy, the positions I love, the right timing and how I want it to flow.
B, I'm a little more reserved but I think I could use my "position" to see others act out my fantasies.

4. Right this very moment you are horny and are looking for a casual hookup for sex. Under which, of the following headings, would you place your ad? (w=woman, m=man, t=transexual/transvestite)
w4m, m4w, m4m, w4w, t4m, m4t, w4t, t4w, t4mw, mw4t, mw4mw, mw4w, mw4m, w4mw, m4mw, w4ww, m4mm, ww4m mm4w m4ww, w4mm

Considering I do participate in casual sex, this would never really happen. But I'll play along for the sake of this post. I would definitely go with w4m. I'm straight and not looking for anything extra.

For the sake of this answer ww4m. Am I a pervert yet?

5. From now on, ’til the end of time you will be able to experience sexual pleasure via a single method. From the list below, choose that method. Why did you make that choice?

a. Vaginal penetration
b. Anal penetration
c. Masturbation with your fingers/hand
d. Masturbation with a single favorite sex toy. What is the toy?
e. Being masturbated (e.g. fingered, hand-job) by the fingers/hands of another person
f. Body Touching from another–full body massage, caressing, kneading, licking, sucking, biting, etc but no insertion of anything in any orifices.
g. Oral sex

I would choose E. Why? Scotty can do amazing things with his hands :)
A. I love the feeling of being inside Nicole.

Bonus: What’s the sexiest thing you did this past weekend? Got any pics or a vid?


The sexiest thing I did this weekend would probably be letting go and trusting Scotty enough to get over a anxiety I had concerning oral sex. And boy did I discover what I was missing out on all this time.
What she said. It was... amazing...

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How to play TMI Tuesday: Copy the above TMI Tuesday questions to your webspace (i.e., a blog). Answer the questions there, then leave a comment below, on this blog post, so we’ll all know where to read your responses. Please don’t forget to link totmituesdayblog from your website!

Weekend Roundup: Week 1

Let's start the week with a recap of our weekend!

Friday Night:
Scotty met me at one of my favorite shopping spots, I was able to find a complete new outfit, a shirt, and two pairs of shoes for work. Scotty decided that he needed to get some personal items to keep at my house since he's sleeping over so often. It's way easier than lugging his stuff around all the time. I think I'm gonna have to make room for him in my closet. Or maybe he'll just re-do my closet for me and then it will be easier to organize and make space. *hint hint - wink wink* After shopping we went to dinner at one of my favorite Italian restaurant, unfortunately we were rushed through our meal, so the experience was so not enjoyable. Finally we got back to my apartment and began to relax. We settled down, then got ourselves riled up again. I wasn't complaining, and I slept really well all cuddled up with him.


Saturday:
I slept in, but poor Scotty couldn't. He did continue to snuggle me until I awoke. When I did, he started playing and soon I was fully awake and with spasms of pleasure rolling through my body. Afterward, we decided we wanted cracker barrel for breakfast, so we got dressed and were out the door. After breakfast I had to go help Mr. Big's mom pack up his things to send them to California. Mr. Big is one of my very best friends, and he just got a job out there. It was hard to watch her go through his things and box them up, she is trying so hard to be strong. I sat and visited with her for a little while when we were through, and she gave me a beautiful angel. Around 5pm I was ready to get home. Scotty and I were supposed to go to dinner with his friends, T & L. So I rushed home to shower and change, only Scotty was running late. I was nearly asleep by the time he arrived and was quite cranky at first, but he soon got me out of my funk and we had a good night out. We were too tired to do anything but sleep when we got home.

Sunday:
We (read: I) slept in again and was gently awoken by a snuggly Scotty. I had had lunch with my mom on Friday and she invited me over for dinner Sunday, and said that i could bring Scotty. We lazed around for a few hours, then Scotty had his way with me and we rushed out the door. We weren't as late as we though we were, so we stopped at the store and I bought him a new shirt (cause I'm an awesome girlfriend like that) and he got a new hat (that is absolutely so sexy on him). Then we went on to my mom's. She absolutely adored him. So did her husband. We played card games and drank beer until about 10pm. Then we finally decided it was time to go. Scotty drove us home and I told him all about my mom liking him and that she could already tell he was falling in love with me. He snuggled me all night again (just the way I like it). 

Stay Tuned each Monday for our weekend adventures!

Our First Post... sorta

A text conversation started it all:

Nicole: I just had a fantastic idea!

Scotty: What's that baby doll?

Nicole: We should write a blog together!

Scotty: Involving?

Nicole: Relationships. Our advice and stories.

Scotty: I think it will take a little sitting down and brainstorming, but I would love to do that. To do a Q&A blog, we have to find the Q's first.

Nicole: Well, we can write about past experiences. And, as issues arise or we hear about stuff, we can write about it.

Scotty: I will totally do it!

Nicole: Sweet! I'll design it tonight!

Scotty: Now we have to get some good pictures for our blog :)

Nicole: Yeah, we do.

Scotty: SOOOOO EXCITED!!

Nicole: lol really?

Scotty: What about this doesn't seem like it would be fun and good for our relationship?

Nicole: I think it would be totally fun.

Scotty: Me too. *pause* I have to wear a hat in our pictures you know.

Nicole: lol, We'll see.

Scotty: No, I'm wearing a hat.

Nicole: Ooook

Scotty: That's right! Im Scotty. I do what I want.

Nicole: mmm hmmm

Scotty: Until Nicole is there. Then I do what she wants cause that's what we want.

Nicole: I need to make you a shirt that says that.

We go home. Sign into Skype and share a screen to build this amazing blog you are now reading. Once we got it looking like we want it I (Nicole) sit back with and admire our (read: My) work. Then this conversation happens:

Nicole: Make a banner for the top!

Scotty: Why do I have to make it?

Nicole: Cause I did everything else.

Scotty: Well, I don't have photoshop on my computer right now, but I will do it later.

Nicole: What?! *facepalm* ok...

Scotty: We don't have to get it all done tonight.

Nicole: Yes we do! *argh* (pause) Well, lets write a post.

Scotty: Ok

Nicole: What do you wanna write about?

Scotty: Whatever you wanna write about, baby doll.

Nicole: *frustrated sigh*

I was hoping to have an insightful first post... but since my collaborator *cough* Scotty *cough* doesn't want to collaborate this is what you get.